Wow, it's Spring, and what's most fascinating about this weather is, winter is kind of gone, I can roam around in shorts and t shirts, beautiful Tulip, budding leaves all around, reminds me life is coming back to my world. I am elated that I don't have to worry about chilly weather, snow, and freezing rains for some months.
So, arrival of Spring after freezing winter infers nothing stays forever, and changes are bound to happen, makes sense right? So, when all of us are aware that changes are integral part of our lives, where is the conflict? Being human, desires and ambitions usually occupy most of our minds, so when we realize that certain changes are going to distract us from our path of reaching goals, a duel starts within! But is there a way to stop the change? What if the change is for good?
Mostly, I have realized a small change may leave you off balance, while bigger one wont! Why would that happen? May be you are not used to of changes, or change happened for the first time in your life, or type of change is unacceptable, or sometimes you know the result of change is unpleasant. What if in long run that change is beneficial for you?
Honestly, it's difficult to answer such questions until you embrace the change and see how it affects your life? Sometimes making a change is in your hands, and if you could figure out that making a change will lead you on a wrong path or going to affect people around you negatively, better not! But again a question, do we really care? If I feel a certain change will lead me in positive direction while others in negative, then? I assume there are two possibilities, either you become selfish or you sacrifice, hmm.. difficult one right! I think, it's easy to become selfish which most people usually do, but I believe sacrificing for greater good counts more than momentarily happiness by becoming selfish!
Friday, April 17, 2009
Friday, May 30, 2008
Life
Greetings Dear Reader, and I am glad that you came back to my blog. To be honest till some time back I used to think how boring job it is to write the blog and how people do it, one of my good friends is an awesome writer his blogs are highly intellectual which gives you insight over the life and idea's which are always considerable, and certain things made me think what could be the best way to talk about my experiences and views which doesn't harm anyone, it's another way of moving on in life.
Oh..well, it's a gorgeous day outside with sun shining at 70 degree F, a bit of clouds and no wind makes it a perfect day, my cabin is at 4th floor of the building, could see the top of the green tree's which makes me feel green and lively, sometimes I realize this picturesque scenery will fade away when the human race will demolish all these kids of the mother nature for their own benefits, as the construction company did to make this building where I am sitting in right now, which also makes me responsible up to certain level, as I earn my livelihood in this building, but it's life for our own survival we have to do this, there is no other way, and the life moves on.
But its very strange that nothing in this life is permanent except your wisdom, education, experience, and love. People come and go, life keeps on moving, and my perspective is like everything starts to get over at some point in life, I don't know how many of you will supplicate my idea but this is the reality, all of us moves through the different phases of life, not a single phase of your life is permanent, they start, get over, and the next phase starts.
Wisdom, experience and education wise it's permanent, these things are earned over the period of whole life, and wont fade until your life gets over, but Love is completely an obscure issue. Everyone in life come across problems and some times the nature of problems are same, while other problems are different in one or the other way, as you, your close friends, relatives or loved ones have gone through them, you learn from there, and gets more insight about how to deal with life, thats where you earn wisdom, experience. Education is not only what you learn in school, colleges or universities that's some thing to make one skill full to earn livelihood but also comprises of wisdom and experience, which in turn helps you in supporting your family, and making a respectable place in this physical world. As I said before, everyone encounters problems in life and I put solution to problems in three different categories, 1. No Solution, 2. Unfavorable Solution and 3. Favorable Solution.
Everyone prefers to have favorable solution, it's human nature that he or she always wants to win, but most of the times battle involves more than one human being, which makes things really complex. Both wants to win but it's a cruel reality that one has to lose unless they join hands. Sometimes, there is a battle when one doesn't want to lose another person, this situation mostly arises in cases of love and relationship, one person walks out leaving another to cry for him. In such cases, one wants another to sacrifice for his own happiness, and if another party doesn't want him to let go, she is considered as selfish, now it's an unfavorable solution for the losing party but since another party is happy she has to let him go. If she doesn't move on there is no solution for her problem, and never gonna be happy in life, but at the same time, it's love which wont die until she dies.
The question arises, is it easy to move on in life? No doubt, one has to since life never stops, and you can't crib about the same thing over and over in life. Not all can be happy at the same time, that's the cruel color of life! But still it's beautiful, when you look back and remember those awesome golden moments, generates a new enthusiasm to keep fighting till the last breath in your life. Same thing may happen again, and if you haven't learned from previous experiences, cruel world will keep making you struggle in life. So, if you have been on the losing side in any aspect of your life just think that it requires a big heart to accept the defeat, that makes you great and place you away from the crowd. I know its an awful situation but that will make you feel proud that you paved the way for some one's success, and they are enjoying because of your heroics. In life there is no winner no loser it's just for the moment one feel proud, once life gets over, nothing remains.
I don't know what title I should have given here, but this is what happens in everyone's life at one stage or another. So, I just couldn't think other than "Life". Everyone knows the reality of life, but still we shy away from them, we close our eyes like a peg ion does, when a cat stares at him and thinks cat is not watching him and eventually becomes food of the cat. Perhaps its the human nature which will never change.
Aah..with the food, I remember it's 1:47 PM and I have to run for lunch; umm not gonna have peg ion as neither I am cat nor a non vegetarian he..he.., probably will have some salad with a cup of fruits, with that I will take adieu and you guys enjoy your time and happy reading. I will be back with another pebble of words, when my writing desires hit me up.
Thanks for reading!
Have a great time,
Ashish Sharma
Oh..well, it's a gorgeous day outside with sun shining at 70 degree F, a bit of clouds and no wind makes it a perfect day, my cabin is at 4th floor of the building, could see the top of the green tree's which makes me feel green and lively, sometimes I realize this picturesque scenery will fade away when the human race will demolish all these kids of the mother nature for their own benefits, as the construction company did to make this building where I am sitting in right now, which also makes me responsible up to certain level, as I earn my livelihood in this building, but it's life for our own survival we have to do this, there is no other way, and the life moves on.
But its very strange that nothing in this life is permanent except your wisdom, education, experience, and love. People come and go, life keeps on moving, and my perspective is like everything starts to get over at some point in life, I don't know how many of you will supplicate my idea but this is the reality, all of us moves through the different phases of life, not a single phase of your life is permanent, they start, get over, and the next phase starts.
Wisdom, experience and education wise it's permanent, these things are earned over the period of whole life, and wont fade until your life gets over, but Love is completely an obscure issue. Everyone in life come across problems and some times the nature of problems are same, while other problems are different in one or the other way, as you, your close friends, relatives or loved ones have gone through them, you learn from there, and gets more insight about how to deal with life, thats where you earn wisdom, experience. Education is not only what you learn in school, colleges or universities that's some thing to make one skill full to earn livelihood but also comprises of wisdom and experience, which in turn helps you in supporting your family, and making a respectable place in this physical world. As I said before, everyone encounters problems in life and I put solution to problems in three different categories, 1. No Solution, 2. Unfavorable Solution and 3. Favorable Solution.
Everyone prefers to have favorable solution, it's human nature that he or she always wants to win, but most of the times battle involves more than one human being, which makes things really complex. Both wants to win but it's a cruel reality that one has to lose unless they join hands. Sometimes, there is a battle when one doesn't want to lose another person, this situation mostly arises in cases of love and relationship, one person walks out leaving another to cry for him. In such cases, one wants another to sacrifice for his own happiness, and if another party doesn't want him to let go, she is considered as selfish, now it's an unfavorable solution for the losing party but since another party is happy she has to let him go. If she doesn't move on there is no solution for her problem, and never gonna be happy in life, but at the same time, it's love which wont die until she dies.
The question arises, is it easy to move on in life? No doubt, one has to since life never stops, and you can't crib about the same thing over and over in life. Not all can be happy at the same time, that's the cruel color of life! But still it's beautiful, when you look back and remember those awesome golden moments, generates a new enthusiasm to keep fighting till the last breath in your life. Same thing may happen again, and if you haven't learned from previous experiences, cruel world will keep making you struggle in life. So, if you have been on the losing side in any aspect of your life just think that it requires a big heart to accept the defeat, that makes you great and place you away from the crowd. I know its an awful situation but that will make you feel proud that you paved the way for some one's success, and they are enjoying because of your heroics. In life there is no winner no loser it's just for the moment one feel proud, once life gets over, nothing remains.
I don't know what title I should have given here, but this is what happens in everyone's life at one stage or another. So, I just couldn't think other than "Life". Everyone knows the reality of life, but still we shy away from them, we close our eyes like a peg ion does, when a cat stares at him and thinks cat is not watching him and eventually becomes food of the cat. Perhaps its the human nature which will never change.
Aah..with the food, I remember it's 1:47 PM and I have to run for lunch; umm not gonna have peg ion as neither I am cat nor a non vegetarian he..he.., probably will have some salad with a cup of fruits, with that I will take adieu and you guys enjoy your time and happy reading. I will be back with another pebble of words, when my writing desires hit me up.
Thanks for reading!
Have a great time,
Ashish Sharma
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
Starter
Dear Reader,
You are here to read some ideas, thoughts, and experiences which flows through a writer's fingers on the keyboard generating enormous binary conversion behind the scene and finally saving and publishing post makes it shine on the dashboard; I remember the old days when most readers were used to sate their reading desires through books, novels, news papers editorials, papers, or journals etc, but now the time has changed, the wide availability of Internet made such writings available 24/7 on a website until & unless the site is down or your Internet connection doesn't have good bandwidth, many thanks to software industry & W3C (world wide web consortium) to make it happen on www, for supporting and standardizing newer developments in the HTML and other web markup languages.
As far as I am concerned, I am not a proficient writer but I will try not to disappoint you.
Your suggestions & comments are highly appreciable.
Thanks for reading it out!
Ashish Sharma
You are here to read some ideas, thoughts, and experiences which flows through a writer's fingers on the keyboard generating enormous binary conversion behind the scene and finally saving and publishing post makes it shine on the dashboard; I remember the old days when most readers were used to sate their reading desires through books, novels, news papers editorials, papers, or journals etc, but now the time has changed, the wide availability of Internet made such writings available 24/7 on a website until & unless the site is down or your Internet connection doesn't have good bandwidth, many thanks to software industry & W3C (world wide web consortium) to make it happen on www, for supporting and standardizing newer developments in the HTML and other web markup languages.
As far as I am concerned, I am not a proficient writer but I will try not to disappoint you.
Your suggestions & comments are highly appreciable.
Thanks for reading it out!
Ashish Sharma
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