Friday, April 17, 2009

Change

Wow, it's Spring, and what's most fascinating about this weather is, winter is kind of gone, I can roam around in shorts and t shirts, beautiful Tulip, budding leaves all around, reminds me life is coming back to my world. I am elated that I don't have to worry about chilly weather, snow, and freezing rains for some months.

So, arrival of Spring after freezing winter infers nothing stays forever, and changes are bound to happen, makes sense right? So, when all of us are aware that changes are integral part of our lives, where is the conflict? Being human, desires and ambitions usually occupy most of our minds, so when we realize that certain changes are going to distract us from our path of reaching goals, a duel starts within! But is there a way to stop the change? What if the change is for good?

Mostly, I have realized a small change may leave you off balance, while bigger one wont! Why would that happen? May be you are not used to of changes, or change happened for the first time in your life, or type of change is unacceptable, or sometimes you know the result of change is unpleasant. What if in long run that change is beneficial for you?

Honestly, it's difficult to answer such questions until you embrace the change and see how it affects your life? Sometimes making a change is in your hands, and if you could figure out that making a change will lead you on a wrong path or going to affect people around you negatively, better not! But again a question, do we really care? If I feel a certain change will lead me in positive direction while others in negative, then? I assume there are two possibilities, either you become selfish or you sacrifice, hmm.. difficult one right! I think, it's easy to become selfish which most people usually do, but I believe sacrificing for greater good counts more than momentarily happiness by becoming selfish!